Why does drama seem to follow me wherever I go? Just as I get one situation under control, another appears. Am I doomed to live in a drama filled bubble the rest of my life? Less than a week after the whole situation with Amanda occurred where I made a conscious decision to end our friendship for the sake of my mental health, another situation has come up.
Anyone reading this probably has heard about the situation. One of my friends tweeted what appeared to be an actual question; another friend responded with her opinion, and a subsequent fight ensued. I thought it was over the first day, but others got involved and took sides. I was the one person attempting to stay neutral but still ended up playing messenger. This blog may come back to bite me in the ass, but I can’t keep biting my tongue.
I’m sick of the crap. I spent most of high school stuck in between two groups. I don’t want a repeat of that, yet that is what’s occurring.
Seriously, anything posted to Twitter can be seen by your followers. ALL your tweets. ALL your followers. Even if sent to another person, it still appears on your page and can be seen. If you post something that appears to be in the form of a question, expect responses. You know, I almost replied to D’s tweet first. More than just Tere thought that was a serious question. We’d seen your previous tweets about hot half naked workers, therefore we assumed you were serious. Then you kept trying to say the tweet wasn’t even about you. I looked on your page. You were tweeting to one of your twitter friends about how you couldn’t believe you missed out on your one last chance to perv! I also didn’t appreciate you complaining to others about the “immature teenagers” and how they wouldn’t say stuff to your face. You were doing the exact same thing. All Tere did was give her opinion, then defend her opinion. If you read this, I’m sure you’ll be pissed as hell, but I’m tired of keeping my mouth shut. And while I’m at it, Tere is a damn good friend. Sure she’s pissed me off before and upset me, but I can’t think of one friend who hasn’t. It doesn’t matter; friends fight. What matters is a couple hours later we’re talking as usual cause we love each other.
To the people who jumped in, I love you all but you shouldn’t have jumped in. I understand why you did, wishing to defend the viewpoint you saw as correct. But it really just aggravated the situation. Sometimes it’s better to just not say anything.
I sat here for a few minutes trying to find something to say to Tere but the thing is, I completely agree with her. Ok, maybe she shouldn’t have spoken her mind and maybe she shouldn’t have cussed. But honestly, that’s just who she is. I respect her for speaking her mind despite what others may think.
So yeah, I guess I’m a little biased. But this is honestly what I think. If I disagreed with Tere, I’d tell her because I know that even if we disagree, at the end of the day we’re still going to be best friends. I would hope my friendship with D is strong enough to survive this. I just can’t keep biting my tongue cause it kills me inside.
