Why does drama seem to follow me wherever I go? Just as I get one situation under control, another appears. Am I doomed to live in a drama filled bubble the rest of my life? Less than a week after the whole situation with Amanda occurred where I made a conscious decision to end our friendship for the sake of my mental health, another situation has come up.
Anyone reading this probably has heard about the situation. One of my friends tweeted what appeared to be an actual question; another friend responded with her opinion, and a subsequent fight ensued. I thought it was over the first day, but others got involved and took sides. I was the one person attempting to stay neutral but still ended up playing messenger. This blog may come back to bite me in the ass, but I can’t keep biting my tongue.
I’m sick of the crap. I spent most of high school stuck in between two groups. I don’t want a repeat of that, yet that is what’s occurring.
Seriously, anything posted to Twitter can be seen by your followers. ALL your tweets. ALL your followers. Even if sent to another person, it still appears on your page and can be seen. If you post something that appears to be in the form of a question, expect responses. You know, I almost replied to D’s tweet first. More than just Tere thought that was a serious question. We’d seen your previous tweets about hot half naked workers, therefore we assumed you were serious. Then you kept trying to say the tweet wasn’t even about you. I looked on your page. You were tweeting to one of your twitter friends about how you couldn’t believe you missed out on your one last chance to perv! I also didn’t appreciate you complaining to others about the “immature teenagers” and how they wouldn’t say stuff to your face. You were doing the exact same thing. All Tere did was give her opinion, then defend her opinion. If you read this, I’m sure you’ll be pissed as hell, but I’m tired of keeping my mouth shut. And while I’m at it, Tere is a damn good friend. Sure she’s pissed me off before and upset me, but I can’t think of one friend who hasn’t. It doesn’t matter; friends fight. What matters is a couple hours later we’re talking as usual cause we love each other.
To the people who jumped in, I love you all but you shouldn’t have jumped in. I understand why you did, wishing to defend the viewpoint you saw as correct. But it really just aggravated the situation. Sometimes it’s better to just not say anything.
I sat here for a few minutes trying to find something to say to Tere but the thing is, I completely agree with her. Ok, maybe she shouldn’t have spoken her mind and maybe she shouldn’t have cussed. But honestly, that’s just who she is. I respect her for speaking her mind despite what others may think.
So yeah, I guess I’m a little biased. But this is honestly what I think. If I disagreed with Tere, I’d tell her because I know that even if we disagree, at the end of the day we’re still going to be best friends. I would hope my friendship with D is strong enough to survive this. I just can’t keep biting my tongue cause it kills me inside.
I wonder why drama follows you, too. I don’t get it. o_O
I figured she was joking – that is an incredibly stupid thing to be sincerely angry about. While I do agree with Tere on this, I see where Diana is angry about all of this, too. I get the impression that she wrote this to you. If that’s the case, she wrote it TO YOU and not to anyone else. I don’t like people who can’t mind their own business. When I say something to someone, I HATE when someone I don’t know or don’t like comments on it. I’m just like, “I wasn’t talking to you. Get over yourself.” Like…when I told Jenn that talking about China in Cultures of Asia was boring me, some girl I didn’t know who apparently LOVES China got mad at me because she went to China once and she thought it was great. She also accused me of liking Japan more than China (I didn’t even mention Japan) because of anime. Jenn knows me, this girl didn’t. This girl didn’t know that I’m interested in European and American history, particularly after WWI. Jenn did know that. That’s the problem with commenting on something a stranger says without knowing much about them – you make assumptions and rude remarks because you don’t know the whole story.
Again, I’m assuming Diana said this to you specifically. If she put it up on her own wall thing, then fine…anyone can comment. But to comment on something someone says to another person is kind of rude. But…I still kind of figured she was joking when you told me about it. I think if I had seen that, it would have been my first response. You make sure someone is joking before you tell them off. It’s kind of the polite/sensible thing to do.